There comes a moment in a person’s life when they stop for a while, look at their existence, and feel that something is missing. You have a degree or two, a great job with a manageable amount of work and free time. You don’t have to work to survive. You have an interesting occupation, a nice house filled with music CDs, movies, books, and a couple of cats or dogs in the household. A pretty loved car and a cool truck; windsurfing, bike rides, a couple of beers with friends on Saturday night. You love your life, enjoy your being, cherish every day and moment. But something is missing, and you can’t tell what exactly. If you’ve just recognized yourself, then go on surfing the net, because I’d like to talk to someone else.
Mr. Someone Else, here is something for you. If you’ve read the above text up until the point “you can’t tell what exactly” and thought: “Wait a minute, I know what is missing in my life,” then here you go – you are the one for this posting. Because I need someone who knows what they want and what they love in their life. Having goals doesn’t mean you’re dissatisfied with your life. No human being can stop wishing for more – more knowledge, more depth in relationships, more wisdom, more awareness, and more artistic excitement. If someone doesn’t want anything, they are either dead or fit the previous choice.
I’m not buying it when someone says that they just want family and kids. I don’t. Of course, I do want a family and kids; after all, I’m a 34-year-old woman. I want it all – the whole package: a boy and a girl, a cat and a dog, a big house, and my beloved significant other beside me. But that’s not the only thing I want from life. And I would never understand anyone who stops wishing for more for themselves, even after they get everything they once desired. That’s why I need someone with goals and wishes. Someone who always looks into the future, insatiable for what this incredible life can bring them.
I need someone who is active, nimble, shares my love for water, sailing, swimming, as well as driving, flying – all kinds of traveling. Someone who likes to go out and meet friends, who has friends and loves people. Someone who will not be afraid of crazy or just active pastimes, who will maybe teach me how to surf or support me in getting back to bike rides and will be there for me in all my outdoor initiatives. Someone who can cook or at least knows how to when needed.
I need someone funny. Witty, playful, giggly. Someone who sees life as a great adventure – positive, radiant, full of smiles and happiness. Someone who never blames bad drivers or his parents, no one, in fact. Someone who loves to be happy and believes that happiness attracts more happiness, and that smiling is the way to do it.
I need someone who is sweet. Kind, sincere, and tender. Someone who understands the unique nature of a female entity, knowing how fragile and tender she is, how different her way of thinking and feeling is. Someone who knows she needs your touch all the time, that she feels your love through touch and words. That she needs to feel your hands and your body, hear how beautiful she is, and how much you need her.
I need someone deep. Smart, educated, erudite, thoughtful, looking for answers to all the questions humanity has asked in search of the key to happiness. What is the most important thing in this life? What is Love? Where do we go from here? Someone who loves to read – and reading is not about fantasy or other light, kids’ books. Philosophy, World Classics, Psychology, smart and deep fiction. Literature that helps you evolve, not just kill your time (as video and computer games do).
I need someone open-minded. Who loves to talk. To communicate. To share his thoughts after reading those thick books and watching those European movies (boring for Star Wars lovers). I need someone with whom I can share my impressions and emotions, my thoughts about positive thinking, and how I’ve been changing my life since the past. I need him to understand me, too. To challenge my mind, to lead me.
It’s getting deeper, isn’t it? Give me some time; I’m getting right to the point.
I need someone who can be The Man in every action, every word, every step, every look. Someone with whom I can sometimes feel like a furry kitten on his lap, purring and enjoying every touch. I need his passion, his desire. I need him to be ready to open his heart to me, and let me jump inside and fly there. I need someone who will see all my depth and want to take it. Take it all. All my endless soul and all my crazy ideas. Someone who can love as deeply as the ocean and value each inch of my being, each ounce of my soul.
I need someone who will attract me. To whom I will always feel an endless desire and a wish to touch and kiss. Someone whose sexuality lives in his intellect but is felt with every inch of his body. Someone who knows that sexuality is not just beauty (and beauty comes from the mind), but energy, power, force, and flow. Someone who can feel his body, who is sensual and sensitive. Someone who can stop his mind and enjoy the touch.
Someone for whom sex is not a way to alleviate tension, but communication. The sharing of tenderness and love, the way to merge with Love and Existence. A way to understand a woman and passion, to feel the two as one, totally dissolving ego in the endless journey of Love.
Here is my perfect posting about love and the person I need in my life. I know there aren’t a lot of people like him, but I know he’s “somewhere out there,” thinking the same thing about the woman of his dreams and not going for anyone else because he wants it all, just like I do.
I like dark hair, dark, bright eyebrows, and dark eyes, with no facial hair. I’m 5’2”, and I see my man as taller than 5’8”, fit or athletic (overweight may be feminine, but definitely not masculine). Someone who likes to look great but doesn’t look in the mirror too often. I would like him to be around the same age as me. I’m 34. I hardly look 30.
Who am I? Just a girl. Smart, intelligent, wise, deep, loving, open-minded, and open-hearted. I am strong, and I need someone who’s stronger than me.