Posts in Thoughts

I have been contemplating how to arrange things so that both love and pigeons, well, you know what I mean… I approached it from the perspective of the space of possibilities. As is known (I don't know about you, but for me – yes), we live in a space of possibilities – infinite ones – and we each choose from them according to our thoughts and feelings.

Love is not a feeling. It’s not something we experience as "beautiful yearning" or whatever else—hormonal surges? Desire, passion?! All of that is not love. It’s simply yearning, desire, passion, hormones, and so on. Mostly chemical states. Sometimes neurotic, depending on the degree of neglect.

I’ve just started reading it, but already I’m trying to apply some of the ideas and experiences that Vitale shares at the beginning of his book. By the way, he talks about a doctor who treated mentally ill criminals without even talking to them, but only by reading their medical histories.

Of course, I had to consider it from various aspects, practice, study it in depth, and test it practically at the deepest level - in my life, in communication with people, and in the business process, I had to break through several stumbling blocks.

Life is empty and meaningless. Meanings are invented by ourselves. And only what has passed the test of objective factors—space, time, and continuity—is considered real. EVERYTHING else (which can only be subjectively tested for reality)—feelings, forecasts, fears, hopes, anxieties—is deemed unreal

About the contract... I think that in those realms where the decision about life’s conditions is made, the concept of a "contract" is inappropriate. But the idea that we make a choice — along with all the life circumstances — I also believe in that.

I'm reading this amazing book by Joe Vitale Zero Limits. Joe is that guy from the movie The Secret who talked about being broke in Dallas for 15 years. And then, bam - suddenly became rich. Well, lots of other cool stuff happened to him too. But this book isn't about how he got rich.

A film starring Marisa Tomei and Vincent D’Onofrio. Even though Marisa Tomei’s overly sweet, "cutesy" acting style is a little grating for me, the film turned out to be surprisingly pleasant.

Even the most beloved person is just a part of my vast, boundless world. To say that they are the entire world is to greatly narrow this limitless world to just one person, no matter how beloved they are.

My periodic desire to escape from myself has nothing to do with a desire for death or an end to life. It suddenly clicked for me what Eckhart Tolle meant when he said he had wanted to kill himself — and how, in the very moment he realized it, he understood that he didn’t actually want to leave life, but wanted to kill himself — the version of himself he was not.