For two days, I carried around the idea of writing a full post-article about “There should be some mystery in a woman,” but decided not to go through with a full labor — I’ll just say it briefly.
There shouldn’t have to be anything special (like “mystery”) about a woman.
The best thing a woman can do for herself is to discover who she truly is — and fully be that.
In English, there’s a great expression that captures this exactly: to own it.
As always, if there’s something you don’t like — you can change it.
But the most important thing is to be what you are right now, at this moment, without “yes, but…”
And let the whole world scream itself hoarse about how a woman should be.
She doesn’t have to be anything in particular.
Not even “herself.”
It’s just that being herself is the easiest and most pleasant way to have a relationship with oneself — no matter how awkward or strange that might sound.